If you didn't know I do a lot of blogs on Life coaching as Life coaching is what has helped me as often to plan your life ahead you do have to begin to see things for what they are. Example when it comes to people who do bad,will they always be like that? For some no, but often no.
They will always be resentful and only their view counts whether it is right or wrong. So do I learn each week? YES!
I now can not feel the pain of someone else's anger and their mistreatment, and it has made me a stronger person. From last week I have seen that my view of people has changed and that I have been caught in this battle of "Your wrong I'm right" when does it really matter if they think I am wrong? NO!
You can never make someone care when they don't. You can't make someone love when they don't, and you can't make someone have a good week when they don't.
What you can do, is focus on those who see the world the same way as you, and those who are willing to listen to your point of view, your story without passing judgement or thinking they have to in someway respond.
It is good to have a place to scream occasionally and yes this includes a pillow. We all want a bit "JUST GIVE ME A MINUTE" and take our time and if you feel you are better off in bed for the day, take the plunge if you can. On days you can't focus take a break, like lunch time and go for a long walk or if you work or live near the sea then walk down to there and sit by it.
Then you can plan your week ahead whilst you sit there as sometimes we do our week ahead list, we often need that time to readjust and smell the sea air. Of course nowhere near a sewage pipe. I've done that not realising and big mistake if you've just eaten.
Any have a good week ahead and tomorrow Wednesday.
Many thanks for reading,
Carrie X
