Sunday 26 April 2020

The Do's and Don't when building a blog



This weeks thoughts and advice post is going to be about starting a blogpost. I have written a similar blogpost on Bloglovin called Creating a blog but in this blog I am writing is about the do's and don'ts.

1. Don't pay for any domain or to post a blog until you start to built up some traffic and also you may want to change the name of your blog. Once you have built up an audience then pay for a domain and upgrade your site if you wish to

2. Write about what you do know rather what you don't know, as then you have less chance of getting writers block, where you can lose sight of who you are writing to.

3. Keep a list of blogposts you want to write about, I do this using my Notepad on my phone and I write them down in my planner

4. Use sites like Pinterest, Bloglovin, Facebook, Twitter, Linkedin and Instagram to promote your blogposts

5. Have confidence in your writing, because if you don't believe in it, how do you expect someone else to believe in your writing

6. Print off your own business cards and labels, if you are going to be selling items from your blogs, and go to seminars, workshops so you can build a social network by word of mouth

7. If you want to write a book to go with your blog then, learning from what I know now is create an EBook, which you can self publish at no cost through Amazon. Then later create a full book of the subjects you write about.

8. Build up your income for your blogs and keep notes of what you are spending on to help with your blogposts if you are doing hauls, shopping ideas etc

9. Create printables where your audience can download a worksheet, an EBook or even a cheat sheet on various subjects
Check out my these cheat sheets within these two posts below:


10. Create a diary and schedule of when you can post blogs to keep the posting of them consistent, and let your audience know so they are kept in formed and know to look out for it.

 
Many thanks for reading,


Carrie X

Sunday 19 April 2020

Talking about depression



It is another end of another week and I don't know about you but having no school run to do in the mornings as made me lose track of the days.

My thoughts and advice for this week is not to allow things to get to you. It is a working progress. I have been through a bit of a drama and I mentioned in my blogpost Self Confidence- Feel like the ugly duckling, about being back on medication and I am now on anti-depressants.

If you do go down the route of taking medication for depression always ask what the side effects are as there are many. With the one I am on your mouth can get very dry so it is important you drink plenty of water.

It is Quetrapin and I had to take one and then increase to 2 tablets at night before I go to bed.

If you are like me have spouts of depression then you do need to seek support and create which I wrote about in a previous blog a good foundation for yourself, so you can speak to them whenever you feel low.

https://everyonecanbuildacastle.com/2017/01/03/creating-a-foundation-and-following-the-unplanned/

Try not to isolate yourself because this can lead to further depression, causing self sabotage, develop bad habits to avoid the feelings of depression and before you know it, you are back contemplating whether to take that overdose or not.

Please do not go down the spiral and call for help. I have written two other blogs relating feeling suicidal:

https://buildingselfconfidencetud.blogspot.com/2020/04/i-am-now-on-antidepressant-because-my.html

https://buildingselfconfidencetud.blogspot.com/2020/03/feeling-suicidal.html

I am going through a marriage break up and it is tough, as so much as drastically changed now and it can be niggling parasite, but yet at the same time I am kind of relieved as it hadn't been working for a while, so I am ready to make that change in my life, and I have met someone new and so I feel it is time to move on.

Many thanks for reading,


Carrie X











Saturday 11 April 2020

Happy Easter

Easter Egg Hunt Clipart


First of all HAPPY EASTER TO EVERYONE!

It is time for us to have plenty of chocolate and look forward to an Easter Egg, but do we all know what Easter is really about?

Let me tell you, it is about how Jesus was Crucified on a cross because people betrayed him and didn't believe in him, and I think a lot of us can identify with this.

That's why I tell stories in books to get to people to understand that you can use life experiences as an advantage. The birth and the death of Jesus Christ is one of the most famous stories in the world and ones that should be remembered.

There are so many people at the moment who work for the NHS who are doing wonders to save people from the Coronovirus at the moment that it is a strange kind of Easter but doesn't mean we can't still watch the story on TV and spend time having some family time. You can still do an Easter Egg hunt around the home and have a meal together, plus along as not too many of you, go for a long walk.

Why not have a picnic in the garden with some friends and have a champagne lunch or dinner.

So still enjoy Easter the best you can have fabulous weekend!